5 sentences that parents should say to their child before sleeping
A few days ago I published article" How to hypnotise children " In that I told you , sleeping time is very important time for children because at this time children are in hypnotic state naturally and what ever is said to them directly install in their unconscious mind today i am going to tell you 5 sentences that you need to install in children's mind before they are about to sleep.
If you install these 5 sentences in your child's mind daily you can programmed their mind effectively you can build a good rapport with them create curiosity of learning you can make them good planner Now when you go to sleep with your children ,what you need to do is first : Allow them to ask any question that they want. this is how your child will understand that every day my parents give me time and opportunity to express my view your child may ask you any question , for example why this sky is blue.
why moon shines etc. by this way their skills to ask question will increase : Remember , "QUESTION IS HALF LEARNING"I go to many universities and other institutions for training purpose you will be surprised to know that when I ask them "ANY QUESTION" so they do not have confidence to ask question , and after session they say "Sir I wanted to ask many question but couldn't ask due to hesitation "Probably you have faced the same situation in your life sometimes , that you had many question but you couldn't ask this is all happen due to us that we do not provide them opportunity to ask question 2nd Sentence :
Tell your child that , I am so glade that you are my son you can bring variation in this sentence on daily basis for example : I am grateful for my God who has given me a child who does.......... here what you are doing is...... Installing a wonderful habit and that is Being Grateful as mental health practitioner I tell you most of the client we see , i found one of the common reasons of mental health issue is " Lack of gratefulness" they have everything yet they believe they have nothing to survive in this world, they should die , they are useless etc.
See Allah has given him everything but he can not feel what he has ,how pity is that it is our responsibility to teach Gratefulness from childhood when you express that how grateful you are to have such child, this makes your child feel valuable too. otherwise children feel that their parents does not care them ,which make parent child bonding weaker .Its our responsibility that in which we treat with our children because our happines and sadness mostly depends upon our child smile also all the parents should think about this.
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